You’ve read the magazines, you’ve seen the runway designs, and you’ve sketched variations of your wedding gown for years. Standing in front of a three-way mirror, however, you may realize that the dress shopping process is more trial-and-error than one-size-fits-all.
At the beginning of the gown search, Amanda Kautt, owner of l’atelier couture, recommends researching your preferred styles, but keeping an open mind to alternative shapes, as well as a variety of skirt shapes, necklines and waistlines. Sometimes the dream gown you imagined is not the ideal silhouette for your body.
“Brides always walk in looking for A, B and C, and walk out with X, Y and Z,” says Ingrid Kent of Mestads Bridal and Formal Wear. She suggests still trying on each shape—ballgown, halter, A-line—that interests you, so you do not regret walking away from the process without seeing yourself in each style.
At dress fittings it’s easy to let friends and family members’ opinions sway your decision. On your first shopping trip, bridal consultants recommend going solo or with one trusted—but not too opinionated—friend. Too many personalities in one room can incite a power struggle and overwhelm the bride.
Once you find “the dress,” have a professional seamstress fit it to your body to avoid common mistakes such as “spill-out” under the arms and ordering the incorrect size. Along with the gown, you’ll want your undergarments to be professionally fit. Michelle Beck of Bridal Accents Couture suggests bringing several lingerie options to your first alteration appointment.
Ultimately, according to Kent, you’ll know within 10 seconds of trying on a dress whether a style is right for you. Join that style with the proper undergarments and have a professional seamstress tailor it to perfection.
